In a world of confusion, spiritual turmoil and debates, I know many people like to believe every soul and spiritual relationship is treated equal. Although this is a fair perspective, we have to be honest with ourselves and admit that this world is far from being fair. We have the handicap, starvation, homeless and the sick/diseased. Just as we have people who is born with natural psychic or genius abilities, we also have spiritual unions that are more connected than others. Although these unions seems more romantic, it's quite the opposite initially. In fact these union is more stressful because the couple have a huge battle together to realign, reconnection, heal and transform each other before they can heal the planet and/or others. The connection alone does not mean your ready to teach and heal the world as some would like to believe. It's actually the first step to a world of chaos, re balancing, exchanging energy and removing emotional confusion. If you believe your a twin and have a strong pull to someone and your assumption is NOT CONNECTED TO YOUR EGO, here are some advise I would suggest.
The first thing and most important advice is to not seek the advise from those who have not experience this type of union because their ignorance will not be able to understand the complexity and energy of this intense connection. Comparing this union to a regular romance can create more confusion than good. Although many of our friends will have good intentions at heart, they will not understand the reaction or indecisiveness of the romance. What our friend do not comprehend, is that there will be many cross roads for twin flames to pass.
The runner in the relationship is the person who will be the most confused and be less spiritual for the most part. This person will have a difficult task because they will be more connected within the matrix and will been torn between a path of materialism verse a path on enlightenment. This does not mean the more spiritual partner will have an easy path to this relationship. They will also have just as much difficulty just as well. Because the energies are becoming balanced within the two partners, hidden wounds or pain will need to be addressed , shared without judgement and healed. This means all skeletons are meant to come out the closet, which is hard for many of us to do.
Remember to always Trust in your inner desires while being truthful to yourself and your mate and everyone else involved spiritual or not. Also trust in the process that things will eventually work out for the higher good once everything is healed. The initial meeting and learning of each other is a time to let go and try your best to transform your ego, who usually tries to deny the connection based on fear of opening up. Always learn to accept, love and most importantly HEAL each other before any important spiritual work can be done. THIS IS ESSENTIAL because we can not heal or transform others unless we have transformed and heal ourselves.
By Makalesi Rodan